It's not just about the book
Over the years, I have avoided bookclubs. "Too many on my list already, without being told what I have to read." But lately I succumbed. The first book I could not get through. (I can't even remember what it was). I got to the end of the first chapter of the second before I gave up. (Not my genre). The third - The Rosie Project - is at my elbow now, tempting me to abandon all plans for my day in order to get it finished for tomorrow’s meeting. I am never short of a good read. The pile on the table in the living room is tall enough to tumble at any minute. But what I get out of getting together with these six or seven other readers - all of whom I know to one degree or another - is the discovery that sharing a book, even one I haven't read but hear more about in the meeting, helps me get to know these women better. Their interests. Their values. There literary expectations and insights. The first thing we do at our meetings it to 'Check in'. This...